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Divorce


Pursuing a divorce (with or without children) can be a complicated and overwhelming process. It may help to gather as much information as you can before actually filing for divorce. The information included on this page, as well as talking with a WISE Advocate or even friends and family who have been through a divorce may help.
It is important to note that in most family courts the divorce process assumes that the two parties will be able to talk openly with each other, come to some agreements, and even file the divorce paperwork together. If you do not feel safe talking with your partner about the divorce process, or you wish to pursue it on your own, it may be best to consult an attorney first. You may also contact WISE (866-348-9473) to find out about other resources that could help.

In both New Hampshire and Vermont, mediation may be suggested or required by the courts for couples going through a divorce. The New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence provides useful general information regarding mediation and why it may be m0re difficult or even unsafe for victims of domestic violence. 
If you decide to file for a divorce, the court will charge a "filing fee" to submit the forms. If you are unable to afford the filing fees, you may ask the court clerk if a fee waiver request form is available. 
New Hampshire
Vermont
According to the Vermont Family Division, "If either party feels fearful or terribly intimidated by the other, because of past or current psychological or physical abuse, then mediation is not appropriate." Click here to read more. See especially, "Is Mediation for Everyone?" You may need to tell the judge recommending mediation about any past abuse by your partner or if you have a Relief from Abuse Order. 
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Internet Safety: There are many ways for an abuser to track your computer or internet use. In many cases, it may be safer to use a computer that your abuser has never had access to, such as a computer in a public library, community technology center, or at the home of a trusted friend. To learn more about protecting yourself while using the internet, visit the New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence Internet Safety Page.

Disclaimers: This website was created strictly for informational purposes and in no way should be construed to constitute legal services, advice or representation. Please consult an attorney in your state for legal advice pertaining to your particular situation.

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